I just finished watching the premiere episode of FOX’s More to Love dating show. 20 heavy set women vie for the affection of a heavy set man. Now from what I can tell (flipping back and forth from Big Brother 11 to this) these women have been judged because of their size all their life which isn’t right. Being big doesn’t mean you can’t be a great person. However, what these women don’t realize is looks matter. Most men and women DO NOT want to be with people they don’t find attractive. I have been waiting for this show to debut since I found they were doing a “fat Bachelor” dating show. I knew these women were going to cry and bitch about guys not looking at them for what’s on the inside. This isn’t 1809, it’s 2009. And in 2009 looks matter. Get over it.

            Don’t get me wrong I’m not that insensitive that I don’t feel for them because I do. At 6’3 350lbs., I myself am a big person. I know what it’s like to be judged and to be thought of as unattractive. However, I’m not going to complain that women don’t like me because women can’t get past my outer look. I can blame my mother and father for giving me the genes of where I’m going bald and I’m ugly. I’m not going to do that either. I’m going to blame myself. I should’ve known when I was younger that bigger is not better. I should’ve known that the men on my mother’s side go bald, but I was hoping for my father side of the genes. I was born ugly so there’s nothing I could about that. I could’ve stopped eating so much and tried to be a little more appealing but those chicken nuggets from McDonalds are just so good.

            Now we all have our preferences when it comes to what we look for in mates. I, as a black man, like white and Latin women for instance. The guy on the show, Luke, really seems to like bigger women which is great for both him and the women. This isn’t like the Average Joe dating shows of earlier in this decade where they tricked beautiful women into coming on a dating show where she expected 20 hot guys but instead got 20 average joes. Then to add a twist they brought in 5-10 hot guys to tempt her. Wouldn’t you know it, in three seasons of that show 2 of the women chose a hot guys instead of an average joe. Now from the previews of the rest of the season it looks like it’s just going to be these women and no supermodel types will be added as a plot twist.

            I have very mixed feelings about this show. It’s good that these women get a chance to feel wanted by somebody and a chance to find love (or the closest thing to it when it comes to reality TV) and be happy. However, with the constant emphasis on “the inside” it completely gives the wrong message. Yes, the inside counts but the outside counts just as much if not more. Let’s not delude ourselves into thinking any differently. You’re not a bad person if you’re bigger than the rest but you’re also not a bad person if you don’t find a big person attractive.

It’s around that time of year where Maxim, FHM.com, Askmen.Com and Smooth Magazine issue there 100 or 99 hottest, sexiest, most desirable women in the world. I enjoy it very much because I love beautiful women as much if not more than the next man. However, I always have some beef with these lists. For the longest time Access Hollywood co-host Maria Menounous was never on these lists until a couple of years ago when she went from not on the list to top 10 in one year on askmen.com. Pamela Anderson and Sarah Michelle Gellar seemingly would be in the top 20 of Maxim and FHM every year when they didn’t even deserve to belong on the list let alone in the top 20. Unfornately, this Maria is 55 on Askmen and Pam and Sarah did not make Maxim’s list this year. (Smooth is more of a Black Men’s magazine s I’m not putting in with this categories.

            All four lists claim the fans vote for who they find appealing. I have no proof other wise so I’ll believe them but there are some really weird and awful selection made that would make me think twice fans would vote like this. Here are the top 10 for Maxim, Askmen and FHM respectively. Also realize FHM is more of an U.K. Magazine and website as well. There is an U.S.site but I don’t know if they make their own list.

FHM

10 FRIEDA PINTO

9 ANNA FRIEL

8 KRISTIN KREUK

7 ELISHA CUTHBERT

6 ADRIANA LIMA

5 KEELEY HAZELL

4 BRITNET SPEARS

3 JESSICA ALBA

2 MEGAN FOX

1 CHERYL COLE

 

 AskMEN.COM

10  KATE BECKINSALE

9 KRISTIN BELL

8 RIHANNA

7 SCARLETT JOHANSSON

6 ALESSANDRA AMBROSIO

5 ANNE HATHAWAY

4 KEELEY HAZELL

3 MARISA MILLER

2 MEGAN FOX

1 EVA MENDES

 

MAXIM

10 JENNIFER LOVE HEWITT

9 JORDANA BREWSTER

8 RIHANNA

7 ADRIANA LIMA

6 ELIZA DUSHKU

5 MILA KUNIS

4 MALIN ACKERMAN

3 BAR RAFAELI

2 MEGAN FOX

1 OLIVIA WILDE

 

            Megan Fox is number 2 on all three list but all three have different number 1’s. The fact that Jordana Brewster, Eliza Dushku, Mila Kunis, Malin Ackerman and Bar Rafaeli are again not only ahead of ,but in the top 10, such women like Marisa Miller, Britney Spears, Kim Kardashian, Keeley Hazell, Katy Perry just to name a few leads me to believe Maxim is not counting fans’ votes. MALIN ACKERMAN??? REALLY???!!

I don’t really have a problem with Askmen’s list because I could see where people enjoy the women in the top 10 because I do, but Kim Kardashian is a top 10 no doubter. FHM continues to surprise me. Two women I never heard of and one not deserving on a spot on the list. Here’s what my list will be and I will continue to make my list through my new website. And if you disagree comment my friends, comment.

10 Flower Tucci (adult film star look her up)

9 Kelly Divine (adult film star look her up)

8 Megan Fox

7 Maria Menounous

6 Jennifer Love Hewitt

5 Khloe Kardashian

4 Mayra Veronica( if you don’t know her look her up)

3 Keeley Hazell

2 Kim Kardashian

1 Marisa Miller

            Honorable Mentions: Katy Perry, Audrina Patridge, and MMA fighter Gina Carano.

I don’t agree with a lot of the rules for dating and relationships out there. So, I going to revise the ones I disagree with give you some of my own too. I looked on the internet for some of the ones I couldn’t remember, but I believe I have some of the major ones. These go for men or women, gay or straight, race, religion, social economic status doesn’t matter.

            Bogus Rule: wait three days before calling back. Why? If you interested call the next day. In fact a girl should probably call or text the guy to make sure he got home safely and to thank him a great time if in fact it was.

            Bogus Rule: never reveal information if you don’t have to. Only if you’re dating for casual sex. If your dating to find ”the one” you should reveal anything you feel important by the third date. I don’t care if it small as your on a “Girls Gone Wild” dvd or as big as having HIV or a terminal disease. Also to go along with don’t be afraid to be honest when asked a question. If a guy if going to judge you because you were very sexual active in the past or if a girl is going to judge you because you never had a relationship last more than one month then they weren’t for you to begin with.

            Bogus Rule: no sex on the first date. This bugs me the most. Life is so short and if sex is a major part of your life don’t be afraid to go for it. Ladies, the RIGHT guy loves the fact and respect the fact that you’re so turned on by him that you’re willing to go for it on the first date. Guys, just because she makes a move doesn’t mean that she did it everybody before hand. Be better than that. You don’t have to do it but down put her down for doing so.

            Bogus Rule: Never be available when he wants you to be. This is mostly for women. Don’t believe this. Some of us like the chase, some of us don’t. Every guy wants to be wanted. And if you’re not available when we are, it tells us you’re trying to blow us off. Then we’ll move on to the next woman.

            Bogus Rule: Always keep a guy waiting and never turn up early. No, no, no. It’s make you seem high-maintenance, materialistic, self-centered. It goes the same for guys as well. You should always be on time if not early for dates. If you’re going to be late, call or text to let the person know and when you get there apologize profusely.

            Bogus Rule: Family Members and best friends shouldn’t date your ex. With the exception of addition to drugs and alcohol, domestic abuse, sexual assault and criminality why would you get mad at a family member or friend for wanting  to date your ex. THEY”RE YOUR EX!!! It didn’t work out with you so you’re going to want a person you care about to not potentially find love with someone because it didn’t work between the two of you. Don’t be selfish. Now if they choose not to date your ex that’s perfectly fine. That’s their decision.

            Final thoughts: When it comes down to you have to find what works for you. I hope everyone can be open-minded to the idea of doing anything, that doesn’t hurt someone else of themselves, necessary to find love.

What I’m not talking about is human evolution. I’m talking about the actual MAN. MEN. MALES. I think we are evolving although there are a lot of things in this world happening (or alledgelly happened) that I still can believe. A lot of them having to do with women. I couldn’t find it on the internet but I recently heard that 75% of men believe women who have sex with them on the first date could be marriage material. That is far and away from the number so called experts want to tell you.

            I firmly believe that men are respecting and not judging women for things that they have done or are doing. We don’t see a stripper as not “take home to mom material.”

We don’t think a 25 year-old girl who had 40 partner is a slut and not girlfriend material. We, and when I say we I’m including myself because I think like this, don’t use bitch, hoe, slut, in place of woman, lady, or female when talking about a woman of women in general. The evolved male is above that. There more men out there that have these evolved thoughts than those men who still have that “she gave it up on the first night, how can I respect her?” or “she’s wearing a short skirt and showing her bosoms she’s only a one night stand king of girl.”

            It’s for those men who are like that to change their ways. And It’s starts with us evolved men and not letting those ridiculous and heinous things being said about women. And to show the other side we also should respect those girls who choose to be more conservative and label them prudes or asexual. Respecting and not judging all women is the first part of being an evolved male.

            I do not condone hitting a woman. I also do not condone violence of any kind. Many women feel they can hit us because we shouldn’t hit them. Bull$%*#!! No one should hit anyone no matter who they are. Unfornately, they are people out there who are uncivilized enough to understand that and thinks violence is the answer to everything. When those people are in your face, provoking you verbally is one thing. When they provoke you physically, if you can walk away that’s great. However, when it’s get to the point where walking away is no longer an option, you have to fight back. No matter whom it is. This could’ve been what happened with Chris and Rhianna. We don’t know because both of them and the police are not saying much about what happened. I’m tired of hearing the crap that even if Rhianna was beating up Chris, he shouldn’t have hit her. Once Again, Bull$%&#!!

            When I was younger, I hit a girl and I hated doing it. But I knew walking away or grabbing at her wasn’t going to stop her from swinging at me. Backstory, 8th grade walking home from school with a couple of my guys and a couple of girls. One of the guys tells one of the girls something that gets her angry enough to spit on me. I call her a dirty hoe. She walks up to me and grabs my very expensive glasses off my face with her right hand and starts to slap with the other. I’m asking her to give me my glasses and I’ll walk away. After the third slap, I realized that my only way out was to fight back which I did. She fell to the ground still holding on my glasses, I hit her on the top of her head a few more times until she let go. Once she did I walked away or more like ran away because she wanted to continue and I just wanted my glasses. At the time, I felt bad. I really felt bad. 13 years later I did the right thing. Hey calling a woman a hoe is NEVER acceptable but neither is spitting on a person. We both were in the wrong.

            Listen, I’m not one that usually put labels on people, judges people, or puts a requirement on what it means to be whatever it is you are. One I will say is if you’re a woman and at the first sign of confrontation or disagreement, if your first or really any thought is violence ( i.e. check out the Bad Girls Club on OXYGEN), I don’t think you’re much of a lady. I damn sure don’t think you should be exempt from getting hit back by a guy if you hit first. Now maybe that’s what went down with Chris and Rhianna. And maybe it’s not. Right now However, I think its best we wish the best for both of them and not judge Chris when we haven’t heard what happened. And not judge Rhianna for being back with Chris, a person who she probably really cares about.

           The question that is asked every day of every month in some kind of way. I have the answer. Just like most of this world, there is no black or white it’s a shade of gray. What do I mean by that? The answer is yes and no. Let me explain why.

No, size doesn’t matter for three reasons. One, most women’s’ orgasms come from the clitoris. No need to be big in that matter. Two, when women do have vaginal or G-spot orgasms, the proximity of the G-spot from the vaginal opening isn’t that far away. Sexperts will tell during foreplay use your index and middle or middle and ring fingers to stimulate the G-spot. Normal finger are about 3-3 ½ inches long. Meaning that when women are talking about how small a guy is and they hold up only their pinky finger, realistically that’s how small a man’s penis would have to be to not hit the G-spot. Maybe even smaller than that. Three, if you’re not open-minded enough, man or woman, to try toys, new positions, different types of foreplay, maybe even open relationships in an extreme case and just want straight, missionary intercourse then it’s you or your partners fault and you shouldn’t be together.

Yes, size does matter because the myth is women are more stimulated by the brain and not the visual. No, not true. We all are stimulated by visuals some more than others regardless of their sex. So, if a man is stimulated by women with big breasts or a big ass or both more than women that don’t. Then obviously women would be stimulated by a guy with 8 inches in his pants than a guy with 3 or 4 inches.

This may or may not have cleared anything up because all of us are different. We have different likes and dislikes. So, even if a woman doesn’t need a big penis to get off, she may want one because that what she likes. If a woman doesn’t care about it then it wouldn’t matter to her. And of course god bless those women so sensitive they have orgasms when they walk. I think if anything comes from this its have fun and enjoy sex the best and SAFEST way possible.

I love you. I care about you. I want to spend the rest of my life with you. I want to bang this beautiful creature at bar who’s very openly giving me the a-ok. However, I can’t. Why? Because most people can’t understand the difference between sex and love. I don’t love her. I’m not going to fall in love with her. I’m going to screw her. Period. I have to curtail to this ridiculous thought that sleeping with someone other than my significant other shows my uncaringness for her. Bulls### and let me tell you why. It is apparent to me from celebrity to citizen, white to black, gay to straight, there is this phenomenon of “cheating” in this country and probably this world. I put cheating in quotes because is it really cheating. Going along with the whole evolution theory and we evolved from animals, animals are not monogamous creatures. Meaning neither are we as humans. However, religion and closed-mindedness has caused us to think that we are monogamous when we’re not. With so many people “cheating” it’s very obvious we’re not. I mean think about it. Really think about it. If you do it would make sense. Unfornately there are always going to non-believers and people who will try to shoot holes in my expose` of cheating. Well let me give you some of the excuses I already heard.

            If we’re supposed to be non-monogamous why do some people not cheat?

Very easily is public guilt. Somehow we have decided that public opinion will matter more than common sense. Everybody get those feelings of wanting to have a passionfest with someone who’s not their mate at that time. Everybody does, If you say you don’t, once again Bulls@$#!! This is more of a woman thing because men and other women will use horrible names like slut, whore, and anything else to degrade them. Why? Back to public guilt which turns to religious guilt and heaven forbid you couldn’t possibly piss off a being you can’t see, hear or touch. If there is a God he would want you to be non-monogamous because that is what is going to make you the most happiest. As long as your good person he could give 2 craps about how you live your life.

                        Aren’t some people just monogamous people? Sure I can believe it. I think it’s very possible. I also think 90% of people are non-monogamous but for reasons I gave about aren’t willing to see the forest before the trees. Now there are more complicated things that go along with this such as cheating being more of a trust issue than love issue. Or if the bigger issue is the closed-mindedness of the world. Those are great questions to be asked but I wrote this only to prove cheating is a ridiculous thought made up to make you feel bad about being the sexual beings you are. I’ll leave you with this and I believe this through and through. You can have sex without love, but you can’t have love without sex.

First, let me wish everyone a Merry Christmas, a safe and Happy New Year and a wonderful NFL playoff run. That’s where I’m starting right now. I’m a Chicago Bears fan, being from Chicago of course, and we have a shot to make the playoffs with a win over the Houston Texans and Minnesota Vikings loss against the New York Giants. The NFL has shown why it is the dominant sport in the world. Wonderful stories and great games it’s awesome. My Chicago Bulls also received a gift this year in the form of Number one overall pick and Chicago hometown kid Derrick Rose.  My Cubs choked again and let’s not talk about that.

            Barack Obama made tons of history this year and as a black man, I’m not ignoring it. However, it was more important that he was a democrat being voted into office than him being the first black president. We’ve had eight year of suck!! I think we now have the right guy in office and hopefully Barack and the Democrats do what they need to do to show those who straddle the fence that Democrats should never leave office again.

            Britney Spears made her triumphant return to show business and I one for one am happy. Not only do I like a feel good story but I’ve always been a Britney guy when it came to the pop stars girls of the late 90’s. So to see her not only healthy but hot again is really a great comeback story. Especially when you think where she was at the beginning of 2008.

            If you don’t watch reality shows this was they best year in my opinion, We saw two Big Brothers including Big Brother 10 which featured the greatest game played by a contestant. Survivor crowned two champions as well as earlier this year Pavarati dominated Fans VS Favorites and just recently Bob won Survivor: Gabon.  American Idol Winner David Cook did some of the best vocals of songs in the history of the show. While runner-up David Archuleta had a hit song in “Crush”. Beauty and the Geek continued to prove that beautiful women will treat guys who aren’t good looking like nothing while those same guys continue to give them chances to prove they’re more than a pretty face. A few honorable mentions are the Bad Girls Club, Real World Hollywood, Real World vs Road Rules: The Island, Hulk Hogan’s Celebrity Championship Wrestling, and American Gladiators.

            More hurricanes for the south and horrible rain storms in the plains caused tons of damage, displacement and unfortunately death for our brethren. Those who could give, gave. And those who couldn’t give , gave seemingly more.

            Now we’re a week away from 2009. Things might have to get worse before they get better with our economy. Who knows what celebrity will do what? Who comes out of the closet?  There is one thing we know for sure, February 17 TV is going digital so you better get ready.  

           I will fully admit I don’t want a dominant woman. As least a dominant one outside the bedroom. Dominant women seem manlier to me. In this day and age, femininity runs rampant. I don’t really have a problem with it until it’s brought up when it doesn’t need to be like the “race card”. Where it’s mostly brought up is when the discussion of a man’s and woman’s role in a relationship is brought up. This is where a lot of women get confused. I’m here to clear up the confusion. When a man wants a woman to cook, clean, and take care of the kids while he works; first, the most men will respectfully ask a woman to do this and not tell them. Second, men are willing to compromise. Not only with the housework but also if you do agree to stay home, we compromise about you going back to work after the youngest child is a certain age.

            Now here’s where everything gets jumbled. Some women seem to think when a man asks for this that we’re trying to make them a slave. Now I don’t want to speak for most men but I will. I think while women think men want them to be subservient, and maybe some do. We really just want to be a man. What I mean by that is being the bread winner, the decision maker, bill payer, the stereotypical male in a relationship. Now this isn’t 1820. Men don’t expect you to sit down, shut up and look pretty, but we would like women to let us lead. Instead of fighting us on each and every thing, let us have our way within of course. Be submissive or another word might be passive.

            Being submissive won’t preclude you from being a strong woman. Cooking and cleaning for you man doesn’t make you subservient. Have an opinion, tell us how you feel, go to work, do whatever you want. Just maybe defer to us more often and don’t think we’re trying to make you a slave. As I write this I’m not going leave the guys either. Please and thank you go along way to softening women. Sometimes maybe women feel they need to be dominant so that we won’t use them or mistreat them. So even though I started this trying to explain to women our side, I end this letting the guys know that to be treated like a King don’t treat your Queen like a chamber maid.

Make Her Ejaculate

By david strovny

Sex Education Correspondent

Some women don't know how to orgasm, while others need little more than a whisper in order to reach orgasmic heights. And then there are the others -- those women who have the capability to squirt their juices all over the bed, the floor, or even you.

Although we'd like to believe that every woman is capable of reaching such heights of sexual ecstasy, unfortunately, there are many women out there who disagree. And if they're not willing to open their minds to the idea of ejaculating, then that's their prerogative.

Nevertheless, if you've got yourself a woman who is very sexually in tune with herself, and would be willing to let you manipulate her vagina until she ejaculated all over you, then today's tip is going to leave you soaking wet.

before she starts squirting

A woman's ejaculate is expelled from the urethra, the same place where urine comes out from. And although studies have found that the clear liquid is not urine at all (the juice is released from the Skene's glands, or urethral sponge), if your girl doesn't have complete control over her PC (pubococcygeus) muscle, there is a chance that she may actually pee all over you.

If this does end up happening, be cool about it. Think about it; it's normal for her to feel as though she's about to urinate when she's about to ejaculate. If she tries to hold it in, she won't ejaculate; she has to let go. If she does end up urinating, and you trip out on her, she'll never try this again. Enjoy the golden shower, and don't freak out.

Let her go with it; eventually she'll learn the difference between the sensations. And although you can manipulate her vagina all you like, if your woman is inhibited, then chances are she won't be able to reach this pinnacle of sexual satisfaction. She may even get annoyed by the feeling, so make sure she wants it.

OK, so she wants it. If you're about ready to start seeking the liquids, read on to find out what you have to do.

use your fingers

While there are some women who can ejaculate through clitoral stimulation, or through other sex play (penile penetration or even breast-sucking), the most effective way to achieve this outcome is through g-spot manipulation with your hands.

She'll be soaking you in no time.

Obviously, we're not implying that you should head directly for the g-spot. Start out with some foreplay and lick her clitoris first -- get her "pumped," so to speak. Once she begins to get excited, insert two fingers inside her vagina, palms facing up. But don't stop licking her clitoris (unless, of course, you can't do two things at a time).

About an inch or two inside the vagina, you will likely hit a round ball of skin -- that's the G-spot. Keep stroking the area with pressure; it may start to become more solid; just keep doing what you're doing.

Tip: Use your other hand to gently press down on the area between her navel and her mons pubis (her pubic mound) for increased stimulation.

If she tells you that she feels like she's about to urinate, assure her that it's near impossible for her to pee and that she should just let go. Although her instincts may be to hold back, reassure her with encouraging words like, "Oh yeah, I can't wait for you to drench my hands."

As she begins to reach orgasm and starts to ejaculate, prepare yourself to either be greeted by a light gushing liquid or an actual drenching spray. Both are normal and the amount of liquid can reach anywhere from a teaspoon to a cup. Have some towels handy.

After she gushes like crazy, chances are she'll want a break because her vagina might become extremely sensitive (think of the head of your penis after you ejaculate). So, don't go for a second round right away unless you get the distinct impression that she's ready for more.

keep getting the goods

Achieving the almighty squirt may not be as simple as described above; it may take some experimentation, persuasion and different positions. As well, you may want to try stimulating other parts of her body while you head inside.

For example, have her lie down on the bed, face up, and kneel next to her (your body should be facing her belly button). While your fingers are stimulating her G-spot, use your other hand and your mouth to manipulate her nipples.

As well, you could also opt to rotate between penile penetration and finger penetration in the doggy style position.

And, of course, there are women who can ejaculate through sex alone, so place her on a surface where her vagina easily meets your penis and penetrate her, making sure only your penis connects your bodies.

And if all else fails, you can always call on a vibrator to help your woman get in touch with her juicier side.

keep on simulating

Every woman has the ability to reach incredible heights of orgasm. It's up to you to convince her to let go of her inhibitions and squirt all over you.

Until next time, get that juice.

Small Penis Sex Positions

By isabella snow

Sex Education Correspondent


The average erect penis is estimated to be somewhere around six inches in length. If you’re one of the millions who fall a bit short of this statistic, you may have concerns about size in relation to your sexual performance. Fret not: While it’s true that size can have its advantages, it’s not really the length that matters -- it’s the width. Additionally, women don’t particularly enjoy having their cervices rammed into, which often happens when a man is overly endowed. There is nothing sexy about painful intercourse, and that’s precisely what many women complain of when a man’s penis is too large. Believe it or not, the right combination of foreplay and stimulation can make a woman worship a small penis just as readily as a large one. Read on as we discuss the best small penis sex positions and how to make the most of them.

before you get inside

Obviously, there’s a great deal more to sex than just penetration, and most men fully recognize the benefits of foreplay. The man with a smaller-sized penis should take even greater advantage of this, prolonging foreplay until his partner is fully and completely aroused; the closer she is to orgasm at the start of actual penetration, the easier it will be for her to climax via one of our small penis sex positions.

Focus on foreplay

Foreplay should include anything and everything your woman enjoys. Kissing and caressing are always appreciated, but don’t limit yourself to the old standbys. Not if you want to really rock her world. Toss in some sexy pillow talk to start, and be sure to have her favorite sex toys on hand. If she’s a bit kinky, you may want to try some sensual biting or even a bit of a spanking. The key here is to lavish her with the kind of attention you know she responds well to; you want to get her so hot that she can’t help begging for sex.

Stimulate the clitoris

Prior to intercourse, you’ll want to spend as much quality time with the clitoris as she can handle. Whether you do this via oral sex or manual stimulation, make sure she climaxes at least once before you move on to penetration; this will help alleviate any performance anxiety you might experience once you’re ready to try the following small penis sex positions.

the positions

The doggie

When performed at the correct angle, the doggie can make even the smallest penis feel quite large. You’ll want her positioned in such a way that she’s able to comfortably place her head and shoulders on the pillow, while having her bottom raised in the air. To help create the most effective angle, her back should be arched and her thighs should be drawn together. Not only is this the easiest small penis sex position on our list, but it’s also one of the most popular.

Bite-sized tip: Lean forward during penetration, maintaining as much physical contact as you can comfortably manage; this will keep things intimate, enabling her to reach her sexual peak as quickly as possible.

The snake

For this small penis sex position, you’ll want your woman lying flat on her belly with her legs closed. For the sake of ease and comfort, slip a pillow beneath her hips until her bottom arches upward. Keeping your knees bent, straddle her hips while maintaining an upright position and place your genitals just behind her bottom. Gently spread her thighs just enough to allow penetration and slide your way in. Take care to keep your weight off her body during intercourse; if you feel the need to brace yourself against something, bend forward until you’re able to touch the bed -- it won’t detract much from the position.

Bite-sized tip: If you really want a tight fit, hold her thighs together as you penetrate her. This is also an excellent position from which to administer a sexy spanking.

The rabbit ears

Lay your woman down on her back, spread her thighs and draw her legs up until her knees are close to her ears. Slip a pillow under her bottom, as this will place her vagina at an angle better suited for this small penis sex position. When you penetrate her, it will feel as though you’re filling her vagina completely. Once sex starts to get wild, however, it can be difficult for a woman to hold her legs in that position. We suggest using your own arms to hold her knees in place; simply place either arm in the crook of her knee before you brace your hands on the bed.

Bite-sized tip: This is an excellent position for her to masturbate in. You may want to encourage her to slip a hand between your bodies to stimulate her clitoris while you’re rocking her world from inside.

The V-formation

With your woman lying flat on her back, move between her thighs and enter her as you normally would from a kneeling position. Next, raise her legs and grasp either one around the ankle; you’re going to elevate her legs entirely and then spread them apart until they form a “V.” You’ll be able to thrust quite deeply from this small penis sex position, so you may want to gain leverage by bracing your palms against the wall or a headboard. To do this without changing the position, simply drape her legs over your shoulders.

Bite-sized tip: This position will give you an excellent opportunity to tease her clitoris. Free one of your hands up by resting one of her legs on your shoulder, and stimulate her clit until she orgasms.

prime positions

While it’s true that society tends to place a great deal of importance on size, the simple truth is that a penis of any size can bring a woman to orgasm, provided the man makes the most of what he has. Yes, that might mean you need to stimulate her clit during intercourse, but that’s often necessary with a large penis as well. Foreplay is what matters most; one good orgasm from a man’s tongue will pretty much win any woman over. Combine that with our small penis sex positions and your woman will be more than satisfied, we promise.

Make Oral Sex Easy For Her

By sarah stefanson

Sex Education Correspondent


Going down is generally not a woman’s favorite part of sex, but it is often what a guy wants most. Your girl probably has plenty of excuses to avoid giving you head, most of them valid. So how can you make it easier and more pleasurable for her to give you a little oral action?

Mr. Clean

The most important thing you can do to make her more comfortable exploring your nether regions with her tongue is to clean yourself up. You may have had a shower in the morning, but by the time the evening rolls around you’ve likely used the bathroom a few times and perspired a bit, so it probably doesn’t smell or taste very good down there. For a longer and more enthusiastic oral sex session, make a point of washing up right before it begins. To avoid spoiling the mood, you could incorporate a mutual bath or shower into your foreplay.

Don’t forget to keep yourself neat and trimmed down below. She doesn’t want to have to hack through a jungle of hair to get to the goods.

Get comfy

The location and position you place yourself in can make a huge difference in both your level of enjoyment and her comfort. You may like the idea of standing while she kneels in front of you, but eventually your knees are going to get wobbly and hers will start to hurt from being on the hard surface of the floor. So if you want the act to last longer and if you want to make oral sex easy for her, make sure you’re both relaxed and comfortable; the best position would probably be to have you on your back in bed while she kneels or lies beside you.

Prepare the taste

The majority of women prefer not to swallow semen, but your girlfriend may be persuaded if you make an effort to make your spunk taste better. A vegetarian diet is the best way to make your taste milder. If you’re not ready to go meatless, try eating foods like kiwi, watermelon, pineapple, and celery to lighten the taste. Make your semen taste sweeter by incorporating plums, blueberries and cranberries into your diet. Beer and coffee will make you taste bitter and dairy products can produce putrid tastes.

Sweeten the situation

If she still can’t take the taste, try covering it up! Use sweet and sexy foods as part your sex play. Any girl with a sweet tooth will enjoy licking chocolate sauce, whipped cream or other decadent foods off any and all parts of your body.

Don’t force it

Don’t push her head down to your crotch to indicate that you want oral sex. If she’s not going down there on her own, try telling her how much you’d like to feel her tongue on you. If she still doesn’t get the hint, just ask for what you want. Let her take control of the situation and keep your hands off her head, both of which will make oral sex easy for her. Forcing her into deep-throating or gagging her on purpose are tacky porn-star moves (unless you’re playing a dom/sub role-playing game in which the rules are well established beforehand).

Feedback and fair warning

Positive feedback is always welcome, and will help make oral sex easy for her. Your body language and the sounds you make will give her indications of how it feels to you, but if you want something specific changed, added or avoided, you’ll have to speak up. Make sure to phrase your suggestions properly, since almost everyone is sensitive when it comes to their sexual skills. Start by pointing out what she’s doing right and then tactfully share what you want.

When you’re ready to climax, give her fair warning. Let her know just before it happens, at least until she gets to know your particular responses and can guess for herself.

oral reciprocation

Hopefully, making these changes will help turn your girl into a willing and eager fellatist, and will make oral sex easy for her. Just remember: it’s only fair to return the favor.

 

 

It’s a tradition that will happen in a lot of house next Thursday. People will bow their heads, thank the lord or whatever higher power they believe in for their health, family, food, etc. It’s gonna happen with my family. However, I don’t believe in religion and don’t believe a higher power has any control what-so-ever of what goes on here on Earth. That is if there even is a higher power. Most likely there isn’t. So what am I going to do Thursday when my family bow their heads and pray. Well, I’ll bow my head, keep my eyes open, hope for the same things they’re praying for and be grateful I have my family around to experience this. With the violence and the Iraq War, there are many my view on religion is meaningless at that point and time. To be truthful it’s meaningless without the holiday. It’s not that big of a deal between me and my family. There have been times where it’s come up but really it no big deal. Although I know in some houses it is. My advice would be for those people who make it a big deal is to not. Everybody wants the same things, they just go about if differently. Bow your head, hold hands, keep your eyes open do whatever you got to do to be you. If you can’t and you just feel that that strongly about it, I understand. Call your family and friends and those who don’t understand and make sure you let them know that despite your difference the love and respect is still there.